I went online to gay.com, and after searching through all the message boards and such to find any information (someone had seen something there), but I finally had to resort to chat rooms.
The only responses I got to my heartfelt query were, "Do you like big hairy tops?", "33gwm in TX w/7in cck, wanna cyber?", and "Which Fire Department do you work for?"
I'm a tad pissed at the so-called "gay-community" at the moment.
And I'm also angry at Mathew Seth, though I'm not sure why.
I'll have to delve into this later.